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Why mindfulness meditation can help you to transform your life . . .

In Psychology and Wellness

If you struggle with feelings of anxiety and depression, you very likely also are your own worst critic, judge yourself harshly and negatively compare yourself to other people.  You may engage in this behavior believing that this is an effective way to motivate yourself to do better, as a habit that you picked up somewhere in your past or simply because we live in a culture that reinforces the message that demanding more of yourself is the way to move ahead in world.  If this sounds like you, you probably also do everything that you can do to run away and avoid difficult and painful feelings (e.g., watch TV, smoke, drink alcohol to “numb out,” or  binge on food), experience guilt or shame when you do not do as well as you wanted to and have a difficult time expressing your emotions to people.

While short term many of these behaviors do provide relief and pleasure, in the long run they are not sustainable and adversely affect your health.   By ignoring your emotions and avoiding your difficult thoughts and emotions, your “fight or flight” (i.e., amygdala and adrenals) and PIN systems (psychoimmunoneurology, the study of how your thoughts and emotions interface with your immune and neurological systems) get ramped up, which damage your body by releasing more stress hormones like cortisol and inflammatory cytokines.

On the other hand, when you express yourself and “talk it out” with your friends and family or practice affect labeling (i.e., simply labeling and mentally acknowledging your experiences), you activate a region in your brain (i.e., right ventrolateral frontal cortex) that helps you to process your thoughts and emotions and mitigates the damaging effects of running away from your experiences.1,2  By talking to other people, you’re likely to also receive caring and loving words of support and affection that increase the amount of the “bonding hormone” (i.e., oxytocin) and feel good and pain relief chemicals (i.e., endogenous opioids) that your body produces.

Learning and practicing mindfulness meditation will lead to and produce many of these same beneficial effects.  Research suggests that cultivating self-compassion and mentally noting your experiences (i.e., an essential aspect of mindfulness meditation) help to significantly down regulate your “fight or flight” and PIN systems.3,4,5   These practices will also help you to produce more feel good and pain relief chemicals.  You can practice mentally noting your experiences and cultivate self-compassion by simply labeling your thoughts and emotions (e.g., each time you experience any unpleasant or painful thoughts or feelings of anxiety, gently repeat “fear” or “tension” and affirm “It’s okay.”).

To your health and success,

Dr. Sandoval

To learn more about how working with a psychologist and holistic health coach can help you to enhance your health and well-being, call or email Dr. Sandoval to schedule a free consultation.

  1. Nakazawa, DJ. (2013). The Last Best Cure: My Quest to Awaken the Healing Parts of My Brain and Get Back My Body, My Joy, and My Life. 
  2. Lieberman, MD, Eisenberger, NI, Crockett,MJ,  Tom, SM,  Pfeifer, JH and Way, BM. “Putting Feelings Into Words: Affect Labeling Disrupts Amygdala Activity in Response to Affective Stimuli .” Psychological Science. (2007). 18(5), 421-428.  doi: 10.1111/j.1467-9280.2007.01916.
  3. Leary, MR, Tate, EB, Adams, CE, Batts, AA, Ashley; and Hancock, J. “Self-compassion and reactions to unpleasant self-relevant events: The implications of treating oneself kindly.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. (2007). 92(5), 887-904. doi: 10.1037/0022-3514.92.5.887
  4. Neff, KD and McGehee, P. “Self-compassion and psychological resilience among adolescents and young adults.” Self and Identity. (2010). 9 (3), 225-240. doi:10.1080/15298860902979307.
  5. Creswell, JD, Way, BM, Eisenberger, NI, Lieberman, MD. “Neural correlates of dispositional mindfulness during affect labeling.” Psychosomatic Medicine. (2007). 69(6), 560-565.

The information, published and/or made available through the www.drjosesandoval.com website, is not intended to replace the services of a physician, nor does it constitute a physician-patient relationship. This blog is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. You should not use the information in this post for diagnosing or treating a medical or health condition. You should consult a physician in all matters relating to your health, particularly in respect to any symptoms that may require diagnosis or medical attention.  Any action on the reader’s part in response to the information provided in this blog is at the reader’s discretion.

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How to safely reduce inflammation in your body . . .

In Psychology and Wellness

Several chronic diseases are mediated by your body’s inflammatory response. Conditions such as multiple sclerosis, depression, anxiety, arthritis, obstructive pulmonary disease, cardiovascular disease and even obesity are mediated by chronic inflammation.1, 2,3 When you experience an acute infection or sustain an injury to your body, your immune system mobilizes an inflammatory response to neutralize the infectious agent or initiate a healing response.  Your body cannot combat acute infections or heal damaged tissues without inflammation. Conditions like heart disease, however, are the outcome of low grade, “silent” inflammation that is systemic and chronic.

Many over the counter and pharmaceutical medications (e.g., NSAIDs like ibuprofen, COX-2 inhibitors such as Celebrex) exist to reduce inflammation in your body.  While these drugs do lower inflammation in your body, they bring with them several side effects (i.e., ranging from mild skin reactions and stomach ulcers to more serious conditions such as heart attacks, thrombosis or strokes).  Thankfully, you can balance your immune system and modulate your body’s inflammatory response by changing your lifestyle.

Evaluating your body’s response to and avoiding common food allergens (i.e., shellfish, soy, dairy, corn, gluten, peanuts, citrus, mold, fermented foods) and minimizing anti-nutrients like phytic acid  and  oxalates which interfere with mineral absorption and lectins that set off an alarm in your immune system as well as  balancing your ratio of omega 6 to omega 3 fatty acids will go a long way towards balancing your body’s inflammatory response.  Your body’s inflammatory system is regulated by your immune system and hormone-like substances known as prostaglandins.

Prostaglandins are enzymatically derived from fatty acids and exert their physiological effect at localized tissue sites.  Omega 6 fatty acids act as the building blocks for inflammatory prostaglandins.  Omega 6 fatty acids are found primarily in nuts and seeds, processed vegetable oils, grains, legumes and conventionally raised animal foods.   Omega 3 fatty acids help your body to produce anti-inflammatory prostaglandins.  Rich food sources include small cold water, fatty fish, grass fed and pasture raised animals, dark green, leafy vegetables and some nuts and seeds.  Ideally, you will eat a 3:1 to 1:1 ratio of omega 6 to omega 3 fatty acids.  Unfortunately, the average American eats very SADly (Standard American Diet) nd consumes a 16:1 ratio of omega 6 to omega 3 fatty acids.4

In order to decrease your levels of systemic inflammation, prevent many chronic diseases and optimize your health, you must reduce your intake of unnecessary omega 6 fatty acids.  Processed vegetable oils used for cooking and in most processed foods are often high in omega 6 fatty acids.  Instead, cook with animal fats or plant sources of saturated fat that are more stable and do not oxidize easily.  Tallow, suet, butter or ghee (grass fed) and coconut oil or extra virgin  olive oil  are healthy choices.  In addition, make sure you increase your intake of long chain omega 3 fatty acids (i.e., EPA and DHA) by including food rich sources at least twice a week.  While long chain omega 3 fatty acids have powerful anti-inflammatory effects in the body, plant sources of medium chain omega 3 fatty acids such as ALA are important for optimal health.  Nuts, seeds and leafy dark greens are rich sources of medium chain omega 3 fatty acids.  Make sure you include several servings a week.

To reduce systemic inflammation and optimize your health, you must also reduce your intake of refined and starchy carbohydrates.  Excessive consumption of quickly digested carbohydrates (i.e., high glycemic index) contributes to the production of pro inflammatory Advanced Glycation End products (AGEs) that wreak havoc inside your body.  AGEs are formed when simple sugar molecules bind to protein or fat without the enzymes necessary to control the reaction.  You can also reduce AGEs by using low heat cooking methods such as steaming or light sautéing and reducing your consumption of animal proteins that have been browned or charred.

Regular exercise can also help to further reduce systemic inflammation by enhancing your body’s production of the anti-inflammatory, cytokine interleukin (IL)-10.6 Cytokines are chemical messengers that work to orchestrate your body’s immune system and inflammatory response.  Aim to exercise for 30 to 45 minutes, four to five times per week to achieve optimal results.    And, remember to have fun and play with your workouts.  Vary your workouts and try adding brief, intense exercise routines a couple times a week.

Healthy Fats

  • Long chain omega 3 fatty acids: grass fed, pasture raised animals or wild caught, cold water, small fish. (e.g., sardines, herring, anchovies, sock eye salmon, bison, beef, venison, lamb).
  • Medium chain omega 3 fatty acids: dark leafy greens, walnuts, seeds (chia, flax, hemp, sacha inchi).
  • Omega 6 fatty acids: nuts, seeds (black currant, chia, flax, hemp, sesame, sacha inchi, pumpkin).
  • Saturated fats: grass fed, pasture raised animals, butter, ghee, tallow, suet, coconuts.
  • Monounsaturated fats: avocados, olive oil, olives, grass fed, pasture raised animals, nuts (almonds, macadamia, cashews).

To your health and success,

Dr. Sandoval

To learn more about how working with a clinical psychologist, personal trainer, and holistic health coach can help you to enhance your health and well-being, call or email Dr. Sandoval to schedule a consultation.

  1. Perry, VH.   “The influence of systemic inflammation on inflammation in the brain: implications for chronic neurodegenerative disease.” Brain, Behavior, and Immunity. (2004), 18 (5): 407–41.
  2. Salim, S, Chugh, G, Asghar, M.  “Inflammation in anxiety.” Advances in Protein Chemistry and Structural Biology. (2012.) (88):1–25. doi:10.1016/B978-0-12-398314-5.00001-5.
  3. Sin, DD and Paul Man, SF.   “Why Are Patients With Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease at Increased Risk of Cardiovascular Diseases? The Potential Role of Systemic Inflammation in Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease.” Circulation. (2003), 107:1514-1519.
  4. Simopoulos, AP. “The importance of the ratio of omega-6/omega-3 essential fatty acids.” Biomedicine and Pharmacotherapy. (2002), 56(8):365-79.
  5. Gundry,S.R. The Plant Paradox: The Hidden Dangers in “Healthy” Foods That Cause Disease and Weight Gain.
  6. Ostrowski, K, Rohde, T, Asp, S, Schjerling, P, and Pedersen, BK.  “Pro-and anti-inflammatory cytokine balance in strenuous exercise in humans.” Journal of Physiology. (1999), 15; 515(Pt 1): 287–291.

The information, published and/or made available through the www.drjosesandoval.com website, is not intended to replace the services of a physician, nor does it constitute a physician-patient relationship. This blog is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. You should not use the information in this post for diagnosing or treating a medical or health condition. You should consult a physician in all matters relating to your health, particularly in respect to any symptoms that may require diagnosis or medical attention.  Any action on the reader’s part in response to the information provided in this blog is at the reader’s discretion.

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How being G.L.A.D. today will lead you to a lifetime of authentic happiness and flourishing tomorrow. . .

In Psychology and Wellness

If you’re like many people who experience feelings of sadness, depression or anxiety, you likely get caught up and entangled by your mind’s nasty and critical stories about you and your life.  While it is reasonable and may even be natural to acknowledge the circumstances, situations or private experiences that evoke your discomfort or pain, your mind’s unending chatter and focus on what is wrong with you and your life has many negative effects on your health as your life narrows to only focusing on what your mind tells you.

Research in the area of Positive Psychology suggests that by shifting your attention and focusing on your character strengths, you can create upward spirals that will lead to a life time of authentic happiness.1,2,  Fortunately, shifting your attention and noticing what is going well in your life and celebrating your successes is simply a matter of being G.L.A.D. every day.

To help you flourish and experience more authentic happiness, keep a journal and write about what it is that you . . .

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GRATITUDE: Each day you have experiences and situations that you can appreciate for which you can experience gratitude.  When you begin journaling about what you feel grateful for it may be challenging for you because your mind incessantly focuses on what ails you or is wrong with your life.  The fact is that everyone who is alive has a reason to feel grateful.  You may simply begin by writing about how you are grateful that you can be grateful.  Appreciate the simplicity of life.  Your lungs breathe for you every day without you telling them to do so. The fact that you have a roof over your head, food to eat and clean water to bath with each day.   Your friends and family.  In counting your blessings, start by focusing on what you are capable of doing.

Several psychological studies have found that when you cultivate gratitude you are more likely to also be happier, cope more adaptively and increase your relationships with the people who are dear to you.3,4,5,6  You are also less likely to get stressed or depressed and will engage in fewer negative coping behaviors, such as substance abuse.  Acknowledging the positive aspects in your life can be challenging; particularly, when your mind focuses or holds on to uncomfortable and painful emotions like sadness, guilt, depression and fear.

As part of your evening ritual to retire to bed and go to sleep, write about 3 aspects in your life for which you experienced gratitude.  Keeping a gratitude journal will help you increase your life satisfaction and reduce painful feelings like anxiety and depression.7

LEARNED:  Every day you have experiences, situations and people that teach you something about life or yourself.  Whether you are learning from a school teacher, professor, friend or simply a life experience, you have boundless opportunities and moments during which you learn something new, if you meet each experience with an attitude of curiosity, openness, and non-judgmentally.  Whether it’s a new book, skill or sage advice and counsel from someone who you meet during your day or simply an experience during which you learn something new about yourself, taking in and recognizing that you have learned something new will help to enhance your level of engagement with life.

According to the PERMA model developed by the father of Positive Psychology, Martin Seligman, Ph.D., and Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, Ph.D., a Positive psychologist, engagement with life and actively immersing yourself in your experiences leads to a state of flow and is part of the Good Life.8,9 Being in a state of flow leads to greater enjoyment, improves your performance and self-efficacy.  When you keep a G.L.A.D. journal, write about something that you learned during your day.

ACHIEVED:  You probably do not remember most of the experiences in your life because they occur mindlessly without your full conscious awareness.  You are; however, much more likely to remember the events which resulted in a sense of accomplishment and success.  Achieving small goals each day, such as reading for an hour, walking for 30 minutes, or writing 2 pages for your new book will help you to identify your strengths and move forward in your life by taking consistent action when life circumstances are challenging for you. The sense of accomplishment and success will enhance your self-esteem, engagement with life and help you to appreciate yourself.  As your self-efficacy improves, you will be more resilient in the face of painful or difficult life situations.10 As part of your G.L.A.D journal, take note of any goals that you achieved during your day and celebrate each success not matter how small in may seem to you.

DELIGHTED:  In your pursuit of authentic happiness, keeping note of the positive emotions that you experienced during your day is important.  When you begin your G.L.A.D. journal make sure that you  notice and savor every experience during your day that you were delighted by and enjoyed.  This is very different from the pleasure that you experience from fulfilling basic bodily needs like hunger, sleep and sex, the companionship of your family and friends or time spent with nature.  Being delighted and enjoyment arise from the pursuit of stimulating activities in which you use your unique strengths and contribute to something greater than yourself such as when you volunteer your time helping those in need at a shelter home or teach young children at your local church because these activities allow you to express your compassion and gift for teaching others.

To your health and success,

Dr. Sandoval

To learn more about how working with a psychologist and holistic health coach can help you to enhance your health and well-being, call or email Dr. Sandoval to schedule a free consultation.

  1. Fredrickson, BF and Joiner, T. “Positive Emotions Trigger Upward Spirals toward Emotional Well-Being.” Psychological Science, (2002).  13(2), 172-175.
  2. Seligman, M. E. P. (2004). Authentic Happiness: Using the New Positive Psychology to Realize Your Potential for Lasting Fulfillment. New York: Free Press.
  3. Algoe, SB, Fredrickson, BL, and Gable, SL.  “The social functions of the emotion of gratitude via expression.” Emotion, (2013) 13(4), 605-609.
  4. Emmons, RA and McCullough, ME. “Counting blessings versus burdens: An experimental investigation of gratitude and subjective well-being in daily life.”  Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, (2003) 84(2), 377-389.
  5. Gordon, AM, Impett, EA, Kogan, A, Oveis, C, and Keltner, D. “To have and to hold: Gratitude promotes relationship maintenance in intimate bonds. “ Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (2012) 03(2) 257-274.
  6. Grant, A. M.; Gino, F. “A little thanks goes a long way: Explaining why gratitude expressions motivate prosocial behavior.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, (2010) 98(6), 946-955.
  7. Lyubomirsky,S, Dickerhoof, R, Boehm, JK, Sheldon, KM. “Becoming happier takes both a will and a proper way: An experimental longitudinal intervention to boost well-being.” Emotion, (2011)11(2), 391-402.
  8. Seligman, M.E.P. (2011). Flourish.  New York:Free Press.
  9. Csikszentmihalyi, M (2008).  Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience. Harper Perennial Modern Classics.
  10. Salanova, M, Llorens, S, and Schaufeli, WB. “Yes, I Can, I Feel Good, and I Just Do It!” On Gain Cycles and Spirals of Efficacy Beliefs, Affect, and Engagement.” Journal of Applied Psychology, (2010) 60 (2), 255-285.

The information, published and/or made available through the www.drjosesandoval.com  website, is not intended to replace the services of a physician, nor does it constitute a physician-patient relationship. This blog is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. You should not use the information in this post for diagnosing or treating a medical or health condition. You should consult a physician in all matters relating to your health, particularly in respect to any symptoms that may require diagnosis or medical attention.  Any action on the reader’s part in response to the information provided in this blog is at the reader’s discretion.

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Are you in need of a Spring cleaning and detox . . .

In Psychology and Wellness

If you experience fatigue, irritability, problems concentrating or disturbances in your sleep, you may benefit from a Spring cleaning.  Spring is looked upon as a season of renewal and rebirth.  Likewise, your low energy, mood swings, sleep disturbances and difficulties concentrating may be indications of a buildup of toxins and need to clean-up your diet and detox.

Instead of making a shopping list and buying several vitamins and/or supplements, focus on avoiding environmental toxins that science suggests cause cancer  (e.g., GMO foods, Glyphosate, second hand smoke, smoking, chlorine in pools that research shows combines with urine to form dangerous chemicals, fumes) invest in whole, organic foods that are raised without herbicides, pesticides and other synthetic chemicals that damage your health and our planet’s soils and choose to eat animals that are raised humanely and safe to eat.  Not only will you keep your exposure to toxins to a minimum, you will help to build your body’s natural defenses and experience an increase in vitality, clear focus, sound sleep and sense of renewal.

You can build up your body’s defenses, support your immune and detoxification systems by ensuring that you eat adequate amounts of the foods that will give you the building blocks to create glutathione.  Glutathione is an intracellular antioxidant that supports your body’s immune and detoxification systems.  It is made from three amino acids: l-cysteine, l-glutamatic acid, glycine and sulfur. The sulfur in glutathione makes it act like fly trap paper, stick to toxins and safely remove them from your body.

Sulfur containing foods

  • Garlic
  • Kale
  • Onions
  • Broccoli
  • Water cress
  • Cabbage
  • Asparagus
  • Brussel sprouts

Foods containing the amino acids l-cysteine, l-glutamatic acid, glycine

  • Unpasteurized milk (i.e., ideally grass-fed, organic and hormone/antibiotic free)
  • Raw eggs (i.e., from chickens that are pasture raised)
  • Undenatured, cold processed whey protein
  • Tomatoes
  • Avocado
  • Spinach
  • Meats (e.g., beef, lamb, bison, chicken, turkey, wild caught, pasture raised, grass fed, wild caught)

Exercise also helps you build up glutathione.  Aim to get moderate levels of exercise (i.e., 30 minutes several times a week). Stress depletes your body of glutathione so it is important that you learn to manage your levels of stress effectively.  By taking these simple steps, you will reduce your exposure to environmental toxins, help build your body’s natural defenses and experience a renewed sense of vitality.

To your health and success,

Dr. Sandoval

To learn more about how working with a psychologist, holistic health coach and personal trainer  can help you to enhance your health and well-being, call or email Dr. Sandoval to schedule a consultation.

The information, published and/or made available through the www.drjosesandoval.com website, is not intended to replace the services of a physician, nor does it constitute a physician-patient relationship. This blog is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. You should not use the information in this post for diagnosing or treating a medical or health condition. You should consult a physician in all matters relating to your health, particularly in respect to any symptoms that may require diagnosis or medical attention.  Any action on the reader’s part in response to the information provided in this blog is at the reader’s discretion.

 

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Are you G.L.A.D. to be alive?

In Psychology and Wellness

If you’re like many people who experience feelings of sadness, depression or anxiety, you likely get caught up and entangled by your mind’s nasty and critical stories about you and your life.  While it is reasonable and may even be natural to acknowledge your circumstances, situations or private experiences that evoke your discomfort or pain, your mind’s unending chatter and focus on what is wrong with you and your life has many negative effects on your health as your life narrows to only focusing on what your mind tells you.

Research in the area of Positive Psychology suggests that by shifting your attention and focusing on your character strengths, you can create upward spirals that will lead to a life time of authentic happiness.1,2,  Fortunately, shifting your attention and noticing what is going well in your life and celebrating your successes is simply a matter of being G.L.A.D. every day.

To help you experience more authentic happiness, keep a journal and write about what it is that you . . .

GRATITUDE: Each day you have experiences and situations that you can appreciate for which you can experience gratitude.  When you begin writing in your journal write about what you feel grateful for.  It may be challenging for you because your mind incessantly focuses on what disturbs you or is wrong with your life.  The fact is that everyone who is alive has a reason to feel grateful.  You may simply begin by writing about how you are grateful that you can be grateful.  Appreciate the simplicity of life.  Your heart beats over 100,000 a day without you consciously telling it do so.  The fact that you have a roof over your head, food to eat and clean water to bathe with each day.   The rising of the sun each day.  Your friends and family.  In counting your blessings, start by focusing on what you are capable of doing.

Many psychological studies have found that when you cultivate gratitude you are more likely to also be happier, cope more effectively and increase your relationships with the people who are dear to you.3,4,5,6  You are also less likely to get stressed or depressed and will engage in fewer negative coping behaviors, such as substance abuse. Acknowledging the positive aspects in your life can be challenging; particularly, when your mind focuses or holds on to uncomfortable and painful emotions like sadness, fear and shame.

As part of your evening ritual to retire to bed, write about 3 aspects in your life for which you experience gratitude.  Keeping a gratitude journal will help you to experience more positive emotions and reduce painful feelings like depression.7

LEARNED:  Every day you have experiences, situations and people that teach you.  Whether you are learning from a school teacher, professor, friend or simply a life experience, you have boundless opportunities and moments during which you can learn something new, if you meet each experience with an attitude of curiosity, openness, and non-judgment.  Whether it’s a new book, skill or sage advice and counsel from someone who you meet during your day or simply an experience during which you learn something new about yourself, taking in and recognizing that you have learned something new will help to enhance your level of engagement with life.

According to the PERMA model developed by the father of Positive Psychology, Martin Seligman, Ph.D., and Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, Ph.D., a Positive psychologist, engagement with life and actively immersing yourself in your experiences leads to a state of flow and is part of the “Good Life.”8,9 Being in a state of flow leads to greater enjoyment, improves your performance and self-efficacy.  When you keep a G.L.A.D. journal, write about something that you learned during your day.

ACHIEVED:  You probably do not remember most of the experiences in your life because they occur mindlessly without your full conscious awareness.  You are; however, much more likely to remember the events which resulted in a sense of accomplishment and success.  Achieving small goals each day, such as reading for an hour, walking for 30 minutes, or writing a page for your new book will help you to identify your strengths and move forward in your life by taking consistent action when life circumstances are challenging for you. The sense of accomplishment and success will enhance your self-esteem, engagement with life and help you to appreciate yourself.  As your self-efficacy improves, you will be more resilient in the face of painful or difficult life situations.10 As part of your G.L.A.D journal, take note of any goals that you achieved during your day and celebrate each success no matter how small it may seem to you.

Delighted:  In your pursuit of authentic happiness, keeping note of the positive emotions that you experienced during your day is important.  When you begin your G.L.A.D. journal make sure that you notice and savor every experience during your day that you were delighted by and enjoyed.  This is very different from the pleasure that you experience from fulfilling basic bodily needs like hunger, sleep and sex, the companionship of your family, friends, pets or time spent with nature.  Being delighted and enjoyment arise from the pursuit of stimulating activities in which you use your unique strengths, are aligned with your life values and contribute to something greater than you such as when you volunteer your time helping those in need at a shelter home, help to build a house in your community for the impoverished, counsel children stricken by grief at your local church because these activities each allow you to express your compassion and gift for helping others.

  1. Fredrickson, BF and Joiner, T. “Positive Emotions Trigger Upward Spirals toward Emotional Well-Being.” Psychological Science, (2002). 13(2), 172-175.
  2. Seligman, M. E. P. (2004). AuthenticHappiness: Using the New Positive Psychology to Realize Your Potential forLasting Fulfillment. New York: Free Press
  3. Algoe, SB, Fredrickson, BL, and Gable, SL. “The social functions of the emotion of gratitude via expression.” Emotion, (2013) 13(4), 605-609.
  4. Emmons, RA and McCullough, ME. “Counting blessings versus burdens: An experimental investigation of gratitude and subjective well-being in daily life.”  Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, (2003) 84(2), 377-389.
  5. Gordon, AM, Impett, EA, Kogan, A, Oveis, C, and Keltner, D. “To have and to hold: Gratitude promotes relationship maintenance in intimate bonds. “ Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (2012) 03(2) 257-274.
  6. Grant, A. M.; Gino, F. “A little thanks goes a long way: Explaining why gratitude expressions motivate prosocial behavior.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, (2010) 98(6), 946-955.
  7. Lyubomirsky,S, Dickerhoof, R, Boehm, JK, Sheldon, KM. “Becoming happier takes both a will and a proper way: An experimental longitudinal intervention to boost well-being.” Emotion, (2011)11(2), 391-402.
  8. Seligman, M.E.P. (2011). Flourish. New York: Free Press.
  9. Csikszentmihalyi, M (2008). Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience. Harper Perennial Modern Classics.
  10. Salanova, M, Llorens, S, and Schaufeli, WB. “Yes, I Can, I Feel Good, and I Just Do It!” On Gain Cycles and Spirals of Efficacy Beliefs, Affect, and Engagement.” Journal of Applied Psychology, (2010) 60 (2), 255-285.

To your health and success,

Dr. Sandoval

To learn more about how working with a psychologist and holistic health coach can help you to enhance your health and well being, call or email Dr. Sandoval to schedule a free consultation.